How to keep the world go round

We deserve the love we are giving to others. I am not just talking about ‘romantic relationship’ but as for general. They said that love is a universal language but why can’t everyone know how to respond? If love is what makes the world go round, of all the things that is happening, is earth standing still?

I met different kinds of people with various stories about love and those stories kept me thinking and wondering; despite of the frustration that it gives, is it still worth it?

Scientifically, feelings are made up or hormones based on what I read these ‘criminals’ are the one who can make us happy, sad, stressed and unfortunately it can make you fall in love as well.

Based on what I encounter about this thing called love is that it is a choice. It is a never-ending process that happens unconsciously. Let us begin step by step.

You decided to be happy

When you start feeling happy, positive thoughts will enter your cute naive little brain. You will feed him with ideas based on all the good things that is happening to you lately and this tiny thing will eventually believe you and he will also say that I am happy. – this is where all the problem starts.

You will get attached

Since someone makes you happy, you will hold on to it. Those sweet talks, those cute gestures, those romantic efforts will become your brain’s air. You will always search for it because you get used to it and it makes you feel good and you want it to be that way. You don’t want anything to change but apparently, everything is bound to be inconsistent.

You assume the feeling is mutual

Since this is a two-way process and no one can dance the tango alone, you will think that he also feels the same way. I bet you will have a check list on the sign that you have for you to confirm that everything is true.

• If he will hold my hand when a shooting star fall
• If he will bring one red rose on my birthday
• If my favorite song will play when we are eating in my favorite restaurant
• If he will hug me when we are in our favorite place

The check list can go further as you want to but it is useless if the feeling is not mutual. Assuming is one of the reasons why some hearts were shattered. – don’t feed your brain with too much happiness

Finding out that everything is too good to be true

The fireworks in your eyes is starting to fade. Start uttering ‘good bye’ to your brain’s air. Start living in despair. When he decided to walk away and you felt he left you hanging; it is the other way around. You let your guard down and you let yourself hanging.

The truth is everything is all about choices. You choose who you will become. You are responsible to your actions and how others see you is merely up to you. Love is all about choices – choose wisely.